husband-approved extra-marital boyfriends are brilliant!

tonight i got to lime (for non-trinis, this word means 'chill' or 'hang out with'. learn it. it's useful) with my extra-marital-boyfriend. it had been far too long. grims had to go off to work before the end of a night out for molnar's b'day, so emb drove me home, and we spent some quality time (he liked my irish creme, and we had a whisky tasting) and i'm just remembering how good my friends are. i keep so few because i don't like people, but those i choose are truly the best. molnar's someone i'm getting to know better lately, and she's great too. for an ex-cult-member-cum-muffin (for non-theatre-people, a muffin is a musical theatre person).
good night all round, except for this waiting up for the sexy to get back from work, after waking up @ 7am for shakespeare (which received 'eeewwws' when my juliet kissed romeo, and a "that's just sick" after a scene from the taming of the shrew. apparently shakespeare is a sick and twisted dude. so sayeth the 5th grade...)
all in all, considering that we haven't done that show in 2 weeks, and it had been since early december before that, we did ok. they loved the show, we didn't go up on lines and i didn't accidentally kill my fight choreographer during our swordfight- for anybody who's been reading this, the one time i'm not a klutz is when i'm onstage. not sure how that works, but it does. not complaining.
but i feel like it's a good time for friends- got back with keif and now have a link to his blog on my list, been getting back with dani in b'dos and nico in london (with cute new puppy), was accosted by an old high-school-mate, twisted d's hair, have a basketball date with jake, hopefully getting snowed in with grims this weekend (operative word being "in"), enjoyed b'daying with ex-cult-m, had a lovely time with extra-marital-boyfriend discussing porn, lingerie and therapy (not for us- the latter, that is), getting back with shakespeare buds, which leads to fabulous talk about rainbow parties, the potential of ultrabang (klutz-related linkage above), the perfect key and tune for nether-region-style-humming, jenna jamison's autobio, killing small children, the shitty furcoated-republican-invasion, and the history of pi (number, not cherry)...
anyway, the sexy is home and conveniently pants-less, so i'm out...
walk good.